I had a very clear vision of what I wanted my shower to be like: a cocktail brunch. Back in Dec 2013, I decided on a Breakfast At Tiffany’s Theme because one, I love the color, and two, how classy does that sound? I didn’t want to sit around playing games the entire time. In my head, it seemed like it’d be fun to dress up and attend a cocktail party that just so happened to be in honor of my sweet little Dylly.


Immediately, I began researching how I could bring my vision to life (read: I created a vision board and stalked every website and Pinterest board until I had curated all of the perfect supplies). I found this really pretty shower by an event planner named Jen Carver of Banner Events, and decided to use a few of her recommended vendors and add in more cocktail party elements to make it more me.


 A few things that I really, really wanted: onesie cookies, a Tiffany box cake, candy and food stations, Tiffany box center pieces, feather center pieces, and a balloon ceiling.

 My mother-in-law is from Thailand and she told us that it’s tradition there to make a wish for the baby and release balloons so that the wishes come true. It looked really pretty (some of my friends who were leaving the area saw them in the sky and sent me pictures).

 I asked my friends to wear black cocktail dresses so that we can all play up the theme, but I could still stand out because mine was long. (I didn’t wear heels because my hands and feet looked like marshmallows from all of the running around and decor making I’d been doing. Please ignore my tired, pregnant feet lol).

I have been a mess during this pregnancy. Everything that I once loved, I now hate. Especially meat. I can’t bring myself to eat any meat except seafood. For that reason, I had a LOT of shrimp lol. My menu included: jerk chicken with rice and beans, mini meat loafs, mac & cheese, beef sliders, french fry cones, shrimp cocktail, shrimp skewers, shrimp & grits, chicken and mini waffles… And from what I heard, it was amazing. I barely got  chance to eat:(

 Besides the candy station, food station, and my baby bump (lol), the photo booth was probably the most popular part of the party. I swear everyone took like 5000 photos. That’s a good thing because Trevy and I were so busy mingling that we barely had time to eat or take photos.

As some of you may know from my Instagram, I made my decorations myself. I placed every feather,  draped every pearl, painted every box, put vinyl stickers on the bags and vases, made the diaper cake, the cake pop box and centerpiece (I now sell centerpieces, favor boxes and more at my shop here)… I won’t buy anything I can make myself lol. Luckily, (because this pregnancy has worn me out) my Erika and my Aunt June helped me out by doing all of the decor on the baked goods.

I was beyond excited to get the chance to see so much of my family and friends at once. That NEVER happens because I’ve been bi-coastal for so long. Lucky me to have an excuse to get so many of them in one state at the same time:)They traveled from near and far to help us celebrate the upcoming birth of our new baby. I’m so grateful and thankful that we are so blessed. My baby is so loved already. And, he got so many awesome gifts from everyone, even my friends who couldn’t make the shower. 


Thank you so much to all of my friends and readers for all of your  kindness, prayers and well wishes for the baby during my pregnancy. You guys are the sweetest. I love and appreciate you all so much. This pregnancy was so hard (with Trevy being deployed for most of it) and you guys helped me through. Only 5 weeks to go!


xx Slim

Credits:


Photos by Trevor, NK, Tosin, Shala, Jovoni, Erika, and Katie
Shower Hostess/Planner: Erika Williams
Decor: Made by me. You can visit my shop Slim Crafts
Catering (food, cake, baked goods): Terry of Dreamin’ Of Sweets
Printing Suite (used for drink flags, labels, rectangle invitations, and blue banners): Anders & Ruff
Onesie Invitations: Yvette Sencion of SDeszigns
Photo Booth: Rudy Loza of Knockoutphotobooth
Skinny Tiffany box cake pops: The MaD Cake Pop Shop
“It’s A Boy” chocolate pops: Erika Williams and June Williams
Dress: Francesca Maestrales of Nuova Vita